Real Baltimore Sun headline yesterday: "Rain Not Done Here Yet"
Anne and I wonder how this could have happened. I imagine a board meeting of Sun editors and reporters in a windowless conference room with cheesy wood paneling and a long plastic table. A reporter says he has a huge story. "Did you guys know it's been raining? A lot! And It might rain again, too."
Three editors comment: "Wow, damn! Really?"
"Is that so?"
"You don't say."
Silence.
Another reporter says, "Did you guys know it's been raining?"
Says one of the editors, "You know, I just heard about that! How long is it going to last? Is it done yet?"
The reporter: "Here? No, not yet."
Silence.
One of the editors: "Well, we need a headline today. Does anybody have a headline today?"
Reporter 1: "Well, it's been raining a lot."
Editor 1: "Where? Here?"
Reporter 1: "Yes. Yes, it's been raining quite a lot. And it's not done yet. Someone should write a story."
Editor 1: "So it's been raining? And it's not done here yet?"
Reporter 1: "Yeah, that's what I heard. I have a couple sources, anyway. Should I write a story?"
Editor 1: "Well, is it done here yet? You know, we need a headline and I think I might have one. When can you have this story done by? Can it be done in five minutes? I want a doughnut."
Reporter: "I can do that." He scribbles a few lines of the story. "Did you say doughnut?"
Editor 2 : "doughnuts? Are we getting doughnuts?"
Reporter 2: "I want doughnuts. Are we getting doughnuts?"
Editor 1: "Doughnuts! Get us some doughnuts! Is that story done here yet? I want doughnuts!"
Reporter 1: "Well, I have a weather report. Maybe we can print that as our top story."
Editor 1: "Still need a headline. And some doughnuts, goddammit!"
Editor 2: "How about 'Rain Not Done Here Yet'?"
Editor 1: "It's raining?"
Editor 2: "I guess so. And it's not done yet. I just thought, you know, we might want to tell people it's not done here yet. And where are those doughnuts? I want doughnuts!"
Editor 1: "We're getting doughnuts?"
Reporter 2: "Can I have a jelly doughnut?"
I'd kind of like to work at the Sun.
Thursday, June 29, 2006
Friday, June 23, 2006
I just went to the Double T Diner with Jeff. I wish I could explain this better than I can, but I don't really understand it. He asked me last night if I wanted to go to the diner, and when I asked him why, he said, "Because I'm hungry." I didn't go, because I had things to do. Tonight he asked me again if I wanted to go to the diner, or more properly went through his routine. I was listening to music and chatting with Anne when he tapped my shoulder. I looked over at him standing there in the black button down shirt I helped him pick out, twisting his back so that his chest was concave, perhaps because he thinks this looks somehow impressive, and smiling as though we had a shared secret, but he knew a bit more of the secret than I. "I'm hungry," he said. I told him to wait, because I was talking to Anne, and because Eric was supposed to call from New York and I wanted to be here to answer it. Anne went to bed, and it became so late that I could reasonably expect that Eric wouldn't call, so I went over to the couch, where Jeff was stretched out lazily, watching The Colbert Report. I told him I would go if he still wanted to, but since going to the Double T is generally such a bad experience, I asked him why he wanted to go.
"I'm hungry."
"And there's nothing to eat in the house?"
"Is there anything to eat in the house?"
"Would I know?"
"--."
"--."
"Well, do you want to go?"
"I'll go, but I don't see why you want to go to the diner."
Then he went into his room to put on his socks. I followed him and said, "If there's nothing in the house, why don't you go to the grocery store?"
"The grocery store, eh? What should I get at the grocery store?"
"Something to eat. I don't care. But the diner is expensive, and the food isn't any good. Why do you want to go?"
"I like the diner." Then he asked, "do you want to go to the diner?"
"Not particularly, but I'll go with you if you want to go."
"Should I go to the grocery store?"
"Do whatever you want."
We went upstairs, and I put my shoes on. Then we walked up the driveway. The sky was black and vast. The humidity and insect noise made the world feel like a movie set. We got to the street and Jeff asked, "which car are we taking?"
"Make a decision!" I cried at him. We took his car, and he drove to the end of the street and turned left, toward 40 East and the Double T. "I just don't see why you don't get food at a grocery store, but if you want to go to the diner, that's fine."
"Should I go to the grocery store? I could still go to the grocery store." He pulled up to the light and got into the middle lane, which would allow him to turn left toward the supermarket and not right toward the diner.
"It's up to you! I have no part in this decision. I'm just going with you because you want company."
He thought for a few seconds and said happily, "I'm going to the diner." Then he made a right turn from a left turning lane (at 10:50 in Ellicott City, so there weren't any other cars on the road), and drove to the Double T.
I took the opportunity to preach to him, which is usually what I do when I go with him to the diner. I explained how he's lazy, and can only live the way he does because our parents take care of his needs even though he doesn't at all appreciate it. I talked about how video games for him are an escape from his meaningless life. I suggested that he go to a career counselor, and that he think about himself and his situation more.
We got to the diner and sat in the non-smoking section, in a booth across from a silent black man and behind a table of three fat people. The fat person facing me was dressed in a red and black checkered shirt and a wide-brimmed straw hat. I think he wanted to look like a riverboat gambler. We ordered, and I continued to preach to Jeff until the waitress brought our food. By the time it came, I ran out of things to say, so mostly I ate my egg and cheese sandwich and watched him in consternation. I don't understand how my brother turned out so differently from me. I see nothing of myself in him. I see no way of explaining to him the basic truths of his life, of all life. We exist randomly, and have to find our own purpose. We are each alone, and without interaction we are blank things. We exist in time, and if that time is under our own control, we would do best to figure out how to use it well.
He ate a chicken salad sandwich and french fries, and when he was done, he paid his bill with money he has saved up for no purpose. Looking around the diner, he said to me, "Why do you think it is that I don't like other people?"
"I'm hungry."
"And there's nothing to eat in the house?"
"Is there anything to eat in the house?"
"Would I know?"
"--."
"--."
"Well, do you want to go?"
"I'll go, but I don't see why you want to go to the diner."
Then he went into his room to put on his socks. I followed him and said, "If there's nothing in the house, why don't you go to the grocery store?"
"The grocery store, eh? What should I get at the grocery store?"
"Something to eat. I don't care. But the diner is expensive, and the food isn't any good. Why do you want to go?"
"I like the diner." Then he asked, "do you want to go to the diner?"
"Not particularly, but I'll go with you if you want to go."
"Should I go to the grocery store?"
"Do whatever you want."
We went upstairs, and I put my shoes on. Then we walked up the driveway. The sky was black and vast. The humidity and insect noise made the world feel like a movie set. We got to the street and Jeff asked, "which car are we taking?"
"Make a decision!" I cried at him. We took his car, and he drove to the end of the street and turned left, toward 40 East and the Double T. "I just don't see why you don't get food at a grocery store, but if you want to go to the diner, that's fine."
"Should I go to the grocery store? I could still go to the grocery store." He pulled up to the light and got into the middle lane, which would allow him to turn left toward the supermarket and not right toward the diner.
"It's up to you! I have no part in this decision. I'm just going with you because you want company."
He thought for a few seconds and said happily, "I'm going to the diner." Then he made a right turn from a left turning lane (at 10:50 in Ellicott City, so there weren't any other cars on the road), and drove to the Double T.
I took the opportunity to preach to him, which is usually what I do when I go with him to the diner. I explained how he's lazy, and can only live the way he does because our parents take care of his needs even though he doesn't at all appreciate it. I talked about how video games for him are an escape from his meaningless life. I suggested that he go to a career counselor, and that he think about himself and his situation more.
We got to the diner and sat in the non-smoking section, in a booth across from a silent black man and behind a table of three fat people. The fat person facing me was dressed in a red and black checkered shirt and a wide-brimmed straw hat. I think he wanted to look like a riverboat gambler. We ordered, and I continued to preach to Jeff until the waitress brought our food. By the time it came, I ran out of things to say, so mostly I ate my egg and cheese sandwich and watched him in consternation. I don't understand how my brother turned out so differently from me. I see nothing of myself in him. I see no way of explaining to him the basic truths of his life, of all life. We exist randomly, and have to find our own purpose. We are each alone, and without interaction we are blank things. We exist in time, and if that time is under our own control, we would do best to figure out how to use it well.
He ate a chicken salad sandwich and french fries, and when he was done, he paid his bill with money he has saved up for no purpose. Looking around the diner, he said to me, "Why do you think it is that I don't like other people?"
Monday, June 19, 2006
In Carroll County there is a woman named Wendy who converted one of her basement rooms into a barbershop. She lives in rural Maryland, where the highways have two lanes and cows still graze in the field. The driveway by Wendy's house faces an acre of cornfield. Wendy is in her fifties, has a long, slightly poofy hair style popular in the eighties, dresses very simply in big shorts, t-shirts and sandals, and speaks with that lazy Maryland accent that took the worst of Eastern shore mariners and southern sharecropers and melded them into verbal sludge.
My mother started going to Wendy with a woman she met at work. The woman's name is Tanis, which rhymes with heinous, appropriately enough. Tanis has that ugly Maryland woman's bus-driver mullet, gray hair, and a lot of face. She and my mother got along reasonably well, perhaps because Tanis didn't talk about the need to castrate Clinton quite as loudly as the other women they used to work with. They often schedule their hair-cuts with Wendy at the same time, which is the only interaction they have now after my mother quit her old job. I guess it's possible to build a friendship around just about anything when you no longer have an interest in ideas.
I went with my parents tonight to get my hair cut. The three of us took turns as Wendy cut our hair and chatted with my mother about the trip my parents are taking in July to Alaska, her own son's job search, the wedding of her son's friend, Eric's travels, and other things middle-aged people can relate to each other about. My father went first, and left a fair-sized clump of salt-and-pepper hair on the floor, which Wendy swept toward the trash. Then I went, and left almost twice as much black hair as she fixed up my fluffy, unkempt head. I always prefer the way my hair looks before I get it cut, and don't like it again for about a month. My mother followed me, and left a thin pile of nearly white hair. While she was in the chair, Wendy's brown tabby came to investigate the couch I sat on with my father, and the floor by our feet, and then he jumped onto the windowsill and looked out at the dying light. Just his tail stuck out behind the curtain, and it waved jauntily. My father told me that the last time they were there, that cat had sat in my mother's lap while she waited on the couch, and when she got into the barber's chair, he had jumped onto her lap again, under the smock.
It is very weird to watch your parents get their hair cut. They look so vulnerable with their eyes closed and their hair lank and unstyled at the sides of their heads.
While I was in the barber chair, my father asked what color Anne's hair is naturally, and when Wendy heard that in the past it had been dyed red-red, she said, "Ohhhh, I had to dye this one girl's hair red-red before. She had hair about your color, and she wanted it red just underneath for highlights. I didn't say anything, but if I had been her mother, I would have been like, 'No way!' I mean, I don't knooow . . . it's a little out theeere . . .." Later she said that the only style of hair she couldn't understand is dred locks. "They look like rats' nests! My husband asked me once how to do that one and I said, 'hey, beats me!' I just don't get that at all. I mean, why would you want to do that?"
As we drove home, we saw two women by the side of the county road walking dogs. My father was about to comment on how one of the dogs was as big as a goat, and then we realized that the woman was walking a goat.
My mother started going to Wendy with a woman she met at work. The woman's name is Tanis, which rhymes with heinous, appropriately enough. Tanis has that ugly Maryland woman's bus-driver mullet, gray hair, and a lot of face. She and my mother got along reasonably well, perhaps because Tanis didn't talk about the need to castrate Clinton quite as loudly as the other women they used to work with. They often schedule their hair-cuts with Wendy at the same time, which is the only interaction they have now after my mother quit her old job. I guess it's possible to build a friendship around just about anything when you no longer have an interest in ideas.
I went with my parents tonight to get my hair cut. The three of us took turns as Wendy cut our hair and chatted with my mother about the trip my parents are taking in July to Alaska, her own son's job search, the wedding of her son's friend, Eric's travels, and other things middle-aged people can relate to each other about. My father went first, and left a fair-sized clump of salt-and-pepper hair on the floor, which Wendy swept toward the trash. Then I went, and left almost twice as much black hair as she fixed up my fluffy, unkempt head. I always prefer the way my hair looks before I get it cut, and don't like it again for about a month. My mother followed me, and left a thin pile of nearly white hair. While she was in the chair, Wendy's brown tabby came to investigate the couch I sat on with my father, and the floor by our feet, and then he jumped onto the windowsill and looked out at the dying light. Just his tail stuck out behind the curtain, and it waved jauntily. My father told me that the last time they were there, that cat had sat in my mother's lap while she waited on the couch, and when she got into the barber's chair, he had jumped onto her lap again, under the smock.
It is very weird to watch your parents get their hair cut. They look so vulnerable with their eyes closed and their hair lank and unstyled at the sides of their heads.
While I was in the barber chair, my father asked what color Anne's hair is naturally, and when Wendy heard that in the past it had been dyed red-red, she said, "Ohhhh, I had to dye this one girl's hair red-red before. She had hair about your color, and she wanted it red just underneath for highlights. I didn't say anything, but if I had been her mother, I would have been like, 'No way!' I mean, I don't knooow . . . it's a little out theeere . . .." Later she said that the only style of hair she couldn't understand is dred locks. "They look like rats' nests! My husband asked me once how to do that one and I said, 'hey, beats me!' I just don't get that at all. I mean, why would you want to do that?"
As we drove home, we saw two women by the side of the county road walking dogs. My father was about to comment on how one of the dogs was as big as a goat, and then we realized that the woman was walking a goat.
Thursday, June 15, 2006
I have decided to start keeping some sort of day planner. I'll begin with a fairly primitive form--a notepad on my night table--and see where it takes me. That's a step above writing things on my hand, which I've also never done. Weird as it may sound, this is uncharted territory for me. I keep a notebook in my pocket all the time, but I rarely use it to keep track of worldly obligations. I have only recently realized that I am not a child anymore, and no one is going to take care of me.
I will also try to update this blog every day. This is really very basic. I was asleep for too long, and it's time to wake up.
I will also try to update this blog every day. This is really very basic. I was asleep for too long, and it's time to wake up.
Tuesday, June 13, 2006
Know Your Moon
There is a moon.
The moon circles around the earth, and both the moon and the earth orbit the sun.
The sun circles around the center of the Milky Way, and both the moon and the earth orbit the center of the Milky Way.
The Milky Way circles around the center of the universe, and the sun and the earth and the moon all orbit around the center of the universe.
We see more or less of the moon lit up with the sun's light, depending on where the side that faces us is in relation to the sun.
The moon rises and sets at different times depending on what phase the moon is in.
Look at the moon!
The moon circles around the earth, and both the moon and the earth orbit the sun.
The sun circles around the center of the Milky Way, and both the moon and the earth orbit the center of the Milky Way.
The Milky Way circles around the center of the universe, and the sun and the earth and the moon all orbit around the center of the universe.
We see more or less of the moon lit up with the sun's light, depending on where the side that faces us is in relation to the sun.
The moon rises and sets at different times depending on what phase the moon is in.
Look at the moon!
Friday, June 02, 2006
I quit my job last week. My emotions were getting to me, overwhelming my reason and sense. I was arguing with my supervisor almost all the time, and railing against the organization of the office and the indignity of being a permanent temporary worker. Everything that didn't go my way made me angry, and almost brought tears. I couldn't bear the sight of my two new co-workers cheerfully making DVDs, figuring out how to solve problems I'd encountered many times before, chatting with each other and laughing at their own mistakes, and listening respectfully to our supervisor. I knew the supervisor, Laura, much better than they did. I'd been on the project before Laura, who was transferred to it back in October when she herself was a temp. She got hired because there was an opening in another project, transferring grant applications to an electronic format and then putting them on CD; but before she went to the new position, she was placed on this DVD recording project until it ended. I naturally felt jealous, as she had gotten hired as a permanent worker (and in a management role) while I remained a temp indefinitely. Moreover, my job was horridly boring. I had to show up every day and repeat the simple actions I'd been doing since I first got the job in September. I spent a whole school year recording tapes for people who didn't even know me. This frustration had a vicious effect on my happiness in other ways, as well: whereas at first I was able to read novels and philosophy at work, toward the end I was finding it difficult even to get through the newspaper. When I got home, I might occasionally look at job sites and every so often apply to one, but I wouldn't say that I had dreams.
On Wednesday of last week, I spoke to Eric in Berlin. I told him about my frustration, and found myself using stodgy language ("the job market is dangerously tilted toward employers"; "it shouldn't be so difficult for me to advance my position"), and he told me looking for traditional work isn't something he or any of his friends have ever done so he didn't know what to say. He suggested that I visit Berlin. Since he's moved there, he's often told me about how it's a great place to live right now because it's cheap and has a hopping culture, and Americans can easily make enough money to live on by teaching English. I asked him if he has a lot of free time. He laughed and said, "I have a ridiculous amount of free time. Oh yeah."
I went in to work the next day, Thursday, and almost immediately got into a bitter spat with Laura about whether or not I had to record both copies of a particular assessment which we had on two different tapes, for whatever reason. I showed her that the two tapes had the same material, and she kept telling me slow down, not to talk so much, and to show her how I knew they were the same. It felt like she was babying me, demanding that I prove my point because my judgment alone was insufficient. Finally, she said that I could go ahead and record only one of the two tapes. On my first break, I called my temporary agency and told them that I wanted to quit. They said that Friday would be my last day.
After I told Laura that I had quit, we talked a bit more openly and she told me that she hadn't mistrusted my judgment, but had been occupied with writing an email and couldn't at first understand what I was saying, and then could tell that I was getting mad but didn't know what else to do. Then, very shortly, we again got into an emotional debate about the ethics of capitalism and specifically of our company, which is a small, family-helmed government contractor. She kept trying to divert the conversation toward my own character, and my tendency to be too sure of what I say, to not listen to other people, and to make too much of small injustices. It was rather maddening at the time, although even then I came to see that she had a point. Nevertheless, I still feel the same way about the company, and about capitalism. I'm very nearly a Marxist.
That night, Anne and I discussed saving up some money and then moving to Berlin to be writers. On Friday, I had one more day of work, and more arguing with Laura, and more bad feelings. I didn't even get past page five of the newspaper, but then I left the office for the last time. Berlin very quickly began to seem like a wonderful idea, better than any other option. Anne and I can both get jobs of any sort just in order to save a few thousand more dollars, get certified to teach English, and leave this country at least for three months, depending on visa renewal. This is our plan. Now we just need jobs.
On Wednesday of last week, I spoke to Eric in Berlin. I told him about my frustration, and found myself using stodgy language ("the job market is dangerously tilted toward employers"; "it shouldn't be so difficult for me to advance my position"), and he told me looking for traditional work isn't something he or any of his friends have ever done so he didn't know what to say. He suggested that I visit Berlin. Since he's moved there, he's often told me about how it's a great place to live right now because it's cheap and has a hopping culture, and Americans can easily make enough money to live on by teaching English. I asked him if he has a lot of free time. He laughed and said, "I have a ridiculous amount of free time. Oh yeah."
I went in to work the next day, Thursday, and almost immediately got into a bitter spat with Laura about whether or not I had to record both copies of a particular assessment which we had on two different tapes, for whatever reason. I showed her that the two tapes had the same material, and she kept telling me slow down, not to talk so much, and to show her how I knew they were the same. It felt like she was babying me, demanding that I prove my point because my judgment alone was insufficient. Finally, she said that I could go ahead and record only one of the two tapes. On my first break, I called my temporary agency and told them that I wanted to quit. They said that Friday would be my last day.
After I told Laura that I had quit, we talked a bit more openly and she told me that she hadn't mistrusted my judgment, but had been occupied with writing an email and couldn't at first understand what I was saying, and then could tell that I was getting mad but didn't know what else to do. Then, very shortly, we again got into an emotional debate about the ethics of capitalism and specifically of our company, which is a small, family-helmed government contractor. She kept trying to divert the conversation toward my own character, and my tendency to be too sure of what I say, to not listen to other people, and to make too much of small injustices. It was rather maddening at the time, although even then I came to see that she had a point. Nevertheless, I still feel the same way about the company, and about capitalism. I'm very nearly a Marxist.
That night, Anne and I discussed saving up some money and then moving to Berlin to be writers. On Friday, I had one more day of work, and more arguing with Laura, and more bad feelings. I didn't even get past page five of the newspaper, but then I left the office for the last time. Berlin very quickly began to seem like a wonderful idea, better than any other option. Anne and I can both get jobs of any sort just in order to save a few thousand more dollars, get certified to teach English, and leave this country at least for three months, depending on visa renewal. This is our plan. Now we just need jobs.